Iceback
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Good evening all
I had an extra long pre sleep nap tonight
In the end only kindness matters
Mavyn
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//damn//
My sister just called, our grandmother had a stroke. She's in the hospital, and apparently mostly coherent, mobile, etc, but her carotid artery is 95% blocked. They're trying to figure out what to do, afraid that if they break it up the pieces will just go upstream and block somewhere else.
She's in her 90's...been depressed for most of her life...Part of me says I need to get on a plane TONIGHT to see her one last time.
Mom says no.
disturbingly...the last three times my sister has come to visit me, we've lost an elderly relative--two great aunts and our other grandmother.
She'll be here to see me Memorial Day weekend.
My speech is not splitting. I am speaking in Cthulhu.
Mavyn
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The thing that makes it hard is that Grandmother IS coherent, so would recognize me, and seeing her would be more meaningful...but she'd also know that's the only reason I was there...
Thanks. just have to decide...And see if work will freak out if I'm gone. They're not exactly pleased with me taking a few random days off on short notice recently...
My speech is not splitting. I am speaking in Cthulhu.
Mavyn
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I promised mom I'd wait until tomorrow, and what the doctors decide.
We'll see. If I don't get to see her, that's my regret to bear...if she recovers fine, she won't resent me. (and yes, complex, but she would resent me if I showed up and she made it. She'd love me for it, but resent me for it too.)
My speech is not splitting. I am speaking in Cthulhu.
Iceback
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Good morning all.
Mav- I hope your grandmother comes through ok. When my dad had a heart attack and my sister wanted to know if she should come I told her no because things looked better than 50/50 he make it. When I talked to the nurse in ICU she told me if it was her she'd want to be there. I thought about it and relized if it was his time to go and I didn't see him I would regret it for the rest of my life. I told her to come and she did. My dad lived another 2-3 years but there was no regrets.
KtC- Good luck I hope it all goes as it should.
In the end only kindness matters
AZGman
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Grumpy 'til the day I die.
AZGman
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What time does adult supervision get here?
Grumpy 'til the day I die.